Celebrating the Sacrament of Marriage
We are truly delighted and honored that you have chosen St. Francis of Assisi Parish to celebrate your wedding. As you prepare to commit your lives to one another before God, we want to help make your wedding day not only a joyful celebration, but also a sacred and grace-filled moment in your faith journey together.
Marriage in the Catholic Church is a holy covenant — a visible sign of God’s love in the world. Our parish community looks forward to walking with you as you prepare for this beautiful sacrament.
Reserving your wedding date is an exciting step in your preparation.
A wedding date may be reserved after an initial interview with one of our parish priests. During this meeting, you will have the opportunity to discuss your plans, ask questions, and begin your marriage preparation journey.
Our in-house priests will be happy to schedule this initial interview through the Parish Office.
Rosie Olivas
Email: rosie.olivas@dsj.org
Telephone: 408-223-1562
Parish Office
St. Francis of Assisi Parish
5111 San Felipe Road
San Jose, CA 95135
When should we begin marriage preparation?
Marriage preparation should begin at least six months before your intended wedding date. This allows time for required preparation, reflection, and paperwork.
Can we reserve a wedding date before beginning marriage preparation?
Yes. A date may be reserved within one year of your intended wedding date, following the initial interview.
When are weddings celebrated at St. Francis of Assisi Parish?
Weddings are celebrated on Saturdays and weekdays (Monday–Friday), except on First Fridays of the month, at either 11:30 AM or 1:30 PM.
Please note: No weddings are celebrated on Sundays.
Can we be married here if we are not registered parishioners?
Yes. While priority is given to registered parishioners, we warmly welcome couples who wish to celebrate their marriage at St. Francis of Assisi Parish.
If you are registered at another parish, a letter of permission from your home parish pastor is required before the initial interview.
May we invite our own priest to officiate our wedding?
Yes, this is possible under certain conditions. Our in-house priest will be happy to discuss these details with you during your initial interview.
Do you offer Marriage Convalidation and Wedding Anniversary celebrations?
Yes. Please contact the Parish Office for more information and scheduling.
Marriage Convalidation is a beautiful opportunity for couples who, for various reasons, have not yet had their marriage solemnized in the Catholic Church. Through this process, couples are invited to bring their marriage fully into the sacramental life of the Church.
If you or someone you know would like to explore this opportunity, our parish is sponsoring a program to assist couples in completing this step. Please contact the Parish Office for information and registration.
May God bless your engagement and guide your hearts as you prepare for the Sacrament of Marriage. May your love be rooted in faith, strengthened by prayer, and filled with joy for all the years ahead.